“I want less, so that what I have I may appreciate it even more.”
Many people wait around for happiness to find them but if you really think about it, it’s really only a positive thought away. Being happy can be a choice you make. With all the chaos that life brings into our lives, it’s really difficult to find a way to be carefree. With so much on our minds, I can see how one can get caught up feeling stressed, angry, confused, frustrated or lost.
For me, I’m at a point in my life where I’ve come to realize that I have to stop, live in the moment and appreciate everything that I already have and everyone who is around me. I try to be optimistic even when the deck is stacked against me because there is always something positive to be gained from all the hardships I’ve gone through.
Everyday that I wake up, I thank God that I get to enjoy another day regardless of how good or bad it is. I don’t worry about the past or the future…now is what’s important to me. I look around and enjoy the small things in life that give me joy.
Yeah it’s easy to say all this and hard to do, but with enough practice it can be done. It took me awhile to get this optimistic attitude but I did it. Enjoy your life, be grateful for your family, friends and pets, be content with what you have and bask in the little things that make life worth living. You’ve come this far, just imagine what the world can offer you.
So don’t wait for happiness to find you, grow it yourself…it’ll do wonders for your life.
We live in a world where the hustle and bustle of life constantly keeps us on the move. It’s like we shift our focus from one thing to the next without a chance to rest. If we’re not doing something that keeps us preoccupied then we feel nervous, anxious even; a feeling of being unproductive comes into play. No matter what station in life we’re at, we should always take the time to stop, breath and soak in our surroundings. Pause our life for a moment to appreciate anything and everything we take for granted. It’s so easy to overlook the little things that’s a part of our lives…nature, air, water, family, friends, pets, the place we live, technology that helps us to communicate with others, vehicles that transports us to faraway places, electricity. It’s just some of the stuff that makes our lives comfortable. Taking a time out helps us to reflect on our lives and gives introspection on what we value most dearly. It’s a way of pressing the reset button and re-energizing ourselves to fight the good fight that all of us are doing just to get by and survive in this chaotic world that we live in. So stop and smell the roses, take in a deep breath and soak in that sunshine; relish being alive and be thankful for all the things that get us through the day.
We live in a hustle and bustle world where every minute of our lives is bombarded by things left and right. There are times when chaos ensues and others that leave us completely dumbfounded. Usually at the end of the day, we are completely exhausted both physically and mentally and end up sleeping it off only to continue with the hubbub the next day.
I’ve learned that too much exposure to all this commotion can sometimes cause us to freak out and wonder “What the hell?!”
“Is this how it’ll be for the rest of my life?”
“Will it ever end?”
“What is my purpose in the scheme of it all?”
“Things have to get better right?”
All these questions must’ve popped into our minds at one point in time. We’re either just starting to experience this, in the process of it or finally getting over it. Whichever one we’re in, just know that in spite of everything, we need to stop and catch our breath.
Look around and take delight in your children, your pets, your siblings, your parents, your grandparents, your friends; just watch them and know that you are what you are because of them.
Watch the sunrise or the sunset; by doing this know that you are lucky enough to live another day.
If your life is not to your liking, change it. It’s as simple as that. Have a job that sucks, quit. In a relationship that’s horrendous, end it. Want to try something new, be fealess and go for it. That cliche “Life is too short” is really true.
You got to where you are because you endured a lot and overcame obstacles that seemed insurmountable. You can go much further and better yourself and situation if you just have faith in yourself. Life is precious…so dare to be bold and custom life to your liking!
Having a family pet
is truly a blessing from the start,
they give their all, and more, to you
warms the bottom of your heart
Their warm and gentle eyes,
soft fur and cheerful grin,
their playfulness and compassion unbound
stirs feelings from within
They’re comforting to the soul
keeping you from a tailspin,
they’re there with you throughout it all
in it through thick and thin
To have a family pet, you see,
is to have a friend for life,
they’re there to provide strong stability
through all the stress and strife
The love a pet shares
is unconditionally all to you,
it becomes the greatest gift of all
to the end their hearts be true
So if you’re given the chance
get a loving pet by your side,
experience all their wondrous joy
and hang on for an awesome thrill ride
I can’t believe that one year ago I started a blog…ME of all people. At the behest of my manager, Alexia, I needed to create a blog site to promote myself on social media. She’s such a savy person when it comes to that so who am I to argue.
When I set up my journey on creating my site, I was a complete novice. No experience whatsoever. There were times when I felt like I needed to hire someone to do this for me so that I can skip all the clutter and get to the details of just writing.
I am so glad that I opted to do this on my own. It was rough at first but soon I got the hang of the process it took to set up a site I could call my own. Yes, you can truly “teach an old dog new tricks.” I am in no way an expert yet but I’m still in the process of learning all the intricacies to fixing my blog site to get it to how I want.
Once I got something up, the question was what was I going to write. I had no clue as to what direction I was going to take. I perused other sites and soaked in what they had to offer; soon I got to thinking that I should just write about whatever I felt like I needed to convey to anyone who would stumble across my site.
I wrote about anything and everything, my experiences, my family, my children, my pets, being a screenwriter, writing in general, poetry, what it took to be a writer, about life, pet peeves, being an eternal optimist, trying to be positive and so on and so forth.
It didn’t matter what I wrote I just needed to write. And I made a promise that I would write something each week regardless if it was eloquent or rough around the edges. I just needed to write. I made this promise to myself and I intended to keep it.
Well, it’s been a year and I’m proud to say that I’ve written something every week. I’ve kept my promise and will continue to do so until I decide otherwise. In the scheme of things, I felt like being a blogger was therapeutic. I got to sound off about a lot of things and was most satisfied that I got to share it…even if no one read it. Writing was writing after all and I am trying to better myself in this craft that I love.
I’m happy I started this journey and am truly excited to see where I’ll be next year. The future is unwritten and I’m looking forward seeing how my site will grow. I am honored to be one of the millions of bloggers in this world expressing myself through my site.
With my one year anniversary of have a blog site coming up, I looked back and wondered what would’ve been if I didn’t start this venture.
Before I started all of this, I had a few misconceptions about bloggers. The three things that stuck out were: ONE – it was easy to create a site, TWO – everyone was doing it to become famous and THREE – you needed to be an expert on a subject to post things about.
I strongly resisted the urge to be a part of this because I thought that I’d be wasting my time that should otherwise be devoted to my screenwriting craft.
For years I continued to pursue my dreams and had forgotten all about blogging. One fateful day my manager, who’s VERY social media savvy, recommended that I create a blog site and put myself out there and promote myself and my stories.
“Oh great…GRRR…do I really have to do this!?” I thought with disgust. I procrastinated in starting this new journey and was making all kinds of excuses in my head as to why I’ll never enjoy this.
Apprehension was always in the background when I started to do research on how to start a blog site. I engrossed myself in any and all available info that was accessible; soon that hesitation started to diminish and a sense of wonderment and encouragement set in.
The thought that “You know what, I really think I can do this” popped into my brain and my mindset was that I was now “ALL IN.”
When I first started, I thought that I was going to have my site up in a couple of hours and would be posting on it soon after.
Boy was I wrong. Creating a blog site was not easy and creating one that would fit my needs was even more daunting. It took a couple of months to get it to suit my needs but it still is a work in progress.
Once I got my site up and running, the next step was posting to it. What was I going to write? How long should it be? What if no one likes it? All these thoughts and more started to creep in and anxiety set in. Damn…whatever I write will be out there for all to see; that was a scary feeling.
Despite all my fears, I “manned up” and published my first post. That wasn’t so bad. A week after that I posted another story on something mundane. The following week it was a random post about my kids.
I started reading all the other bloggers out there and was surprised (and relieved) at what I found. My fellow bloggers were posting about a lot of things: their experiences, historical accounts, traveling, writing, pets, friends, foods, anything and everything.
It was amazing to see the cornucopia of topics bloggers everywhere talked about. Some of the writing were eloquent, while others were simple and straightforward; it was quite refreshing reading all of this.
Some wrote to just get things off their chest, while others wrote in hopes of helping others; I connected with people whom I never me all because of their posting. I connected with people whom I never met all because of their posts. It was truly AMAZING!
The more I wrote, the more I felt comfortable. When I got my first “LIKE” and “Comment”, I was ecstatic to the point where I jumped off my chair and danced around like a giddy child on Christmas day.
This encouraged me to continue on and write on subjects that I would never even think of. I ventured into other types of writing that even helped my style of writing.
“What was I so afraid of?” I thought. Fast track to a year later, my mindset now is “I should’ve started blogging years ago.”
For anyone that is thinking about starting a blog, all I can say is “GO FOR IT!” It’s a way to get yourself out there and share what you have to offer to others. You’ll be interested to find that there are others that share your same dreams, feelings, experiences, passion and humor.
Don’t be afraid. The only question that you should ask yourself is whether…”To Blog or Not To Blog.”