With my son graduating 8th grade yesterday and my daughter set to graduate from high school this Saturday, I look back with fond memories of them when they were just mere babies to who they are now and what they are becoming. I am literally amazed at what they can do and what they can accomplish. Granted my wife and I gave them the tools to navigate their way through life but they managed perfectly using their own sense and sensibilities. Everything that they’ve achieved so far was due to their unique personality and innate traits; their exterior demeanor belies their true potential. It is because of this that I cherish being a parent. My children’s vim and vigor, no holds barred quest to grab a hold of what the world has to offer and run with it, is truly inspiring. It keeps me on my toes, anxiously waiting to see what unfolds for them and how they’ll astound us. Reflecting on my children’s journey into adulthood overwhelms me with pride and joy and is one of life’s gifts that I am truly honored to accept.
When all things must come to an end
How do you say goodbye
to the friendships formed through years of…
The bond that was created was unique,
one that can never be broken
A rapport that can never be extinguished
Is it possible to find that in the unknown?
A place where
Is there hope in finding
that special connection
with another person again?
One who’ll share
You can never go back,
you can only cherish that special memory
of a past that you can no longer relive
You can only be grateful,
and carry on
By the grace of God,
with some luck,
you’ll stumble upon a new era
and experience new things
that will resemble the past.
“As you look towards the future
forget not the past
Savor the present
for in your memories they’ll last
There’ll be times in life
where things may be unclear,
just grit your teeth, head straight forward
and show you have no fear
There will also be days
when everyone brings you down,
so just remember my smile
like that of a cheerful clown
Remember the good times
shared between you and me,
and spread all of the happiness
to everyone you see.”
We all have friends in our lives. Some may have an army of them while others a few. Contrary to most social media apps like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat and others of the ilk where quantity determines popularity and self-value, true friendship is based on quality.
A friend is someone who is with you through the good times and the bad. They’re there to lift your spirits up and to support you in times of crisis.
We have childhood friends, work friends, family friends, fair weather friends and even befriended friends of friends. “WOW!” that’s the most that I’ve used the word friends in one complete sentence.
There are some, the “lucky ones”, that are most fortunate to have a life-long friend or friends that have been with you in all stages of your life and you in theirs. You guys, the “lucky ones”, really hit the lottery.
There’s no question that family members can be our friends; but that’s a different type of bond that goes well beyond conventional friendship.
For the rest of us, we’ve had friends that came in and out of our lives at various points in our life. Some we lost touch with, some that fell apart, some that passed away, some that abandoned us, some that promised to keep in contact but never do and some that just quietly drifted away.
Despite what type of friends we have, I feel that the ones that came into our lives at any given point in time was there for a reason. They were there to serve a purpose, and when it was fulfilled, they moved on so that we could do the same.
There’s nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we weren’t meant to be life-long friends with certain people; that’s okay. In that given time span of when we started that friendship till the time it ended should be cherished whether it be good or bad.
The fact that we shared a friendship with someone is an amazing feat in itself. We displayed an ability to give of ourselves to another to the point where they liked us enough to do the same. If we continue to do that throughout the rest of our lives, there will be no shortage of friends.
We all desire friends because life’s too short to go it alone. We need that special someone to accompany us in our life’s journey because it’s just way more fun. Having twice the laughs, twice the craziness, twice the smiles and twice the hugs is the best reward a friend could provide.