“As I slowly lose my youthful mobility, I eagerly take bold and brisk steps to experience all that life has to offer.”
The past couple of days, I’ve pondered on my life’s journey and what it took to get me here today. It was a smooth ride that had numerous speed bumps and detours along the way.
I’ve had days when I hit the jackpot and everything went my way; even my mistakes and miscues resulted in a favorable outcome.
AND THEN there were those days where anything and everything went horribly wrong; where life put me in a loop and a series of jokes slapped me in the face one after another.
Regardless of what kind of day, week, month or year I had, I somehow survived; I lived to tell the tale and more often than not, I remembered in detail all of the good that I encountered.
Throughout all of my life’s experiences, I’ve come to the realization that sometimes my greatest memory can be my worst enemy. Relishing and reminiscing about all those happy times brought about a false sense of thinking; that everything would result in something wonderful.
It was good to have a positive outlook but I needed to embrace all the bad that happened in my life wholeheartedly. With every failed attempt I grew closer to success.
With much introspection, I’ve learned to value everything that crossed my path. It helped me to be strong, wise, compassionate, focused, determined and grateful. Life is way too short, so “Find the beauty in every moment” and bring out the best in yourself.
With my one year anniversary of have a blog site coming up, I looked back and wondered what would’ve been if I didn’t start this venture.
Before I started all of this, I had a few misconceptions about bloggers. The three things that stuck out were: ONE – it was easy to create a site, TWO – everyone was doing it to become famous and THREE – you needed to be an expert on a subject to post things about.
I strongly resisted the urge to be a part of this because I thought that I’d be wasting my time that should otherwise be devoted to my screenwriting craft.
For years I continued to pursue my dreams and had forgotten all about blogging. One fateful day my manager, who’s VERY social media savvy, recommended that I create a blog site and put myself out there and promote myself and my stories.
“Oh great…GRRR…do I really have to do this!?” I thought with disgust. I procrastinated in starting this new journey and was making all kinds of excuses in my head as to why I’ll never enjoy this.
Apprehension was always in the background when I started to do research on how to start a blog site. I engrossed myself in any and all available info that was accessible; soon that hesitation started to diminish and a sense of wonderment and encouragement set in.
The thought that “You know what, I really think I can do this” popped into my brain and my mindset was that I was now “ALL IN.”
When I first started, I thought that I was going to have my site up in a couple of hours and would be posting on it soon after.
Boy was I wrong. Creating a blog site was not easy and creating one that would fit my needs was even more daunting. It took a couple of months to get it to suit my needs but it still is a work in progress.
Once I got my site up and running, the next step was posting to it. What was I going to write? How long should it be? What if no one likes it? All these thoughts and more started to creep in and anxiety set in. Damn…whatever I write will be out there for all to see; that was a scary feeling.
Despite all my fears, I “manned up” and published my first post. That wasn’t so bad. A week after that I posted another story on something mundane. The following week it was a random post about my kids.
I started reading all the other bloggers out there and was surprised (and relieved) at what I found. My fellow bloggers were posting about a lot of things: their experiences, historical accounts, traveling, writing, pets, friends, foods, anything and everything.
It was amazing to see the cornucopia of topics bloggers everywhere talked about. Some of the writing were eloquent, while others were simple and straightforward; it was quite refreshing reading all of this.
Some wrote to just get things off their chest, while others wrote in hopes of helping others; I connected with people whom I never me all because of their posting. I connected with people whom I never met all because of their posts. It was truly AMAZING!
The more I wrote, the more I felt comfortable. When I got my first “LIKE” and “Comment”, I was ecstatic to the point where I jumped off my chair and danced around like a giddy child on Christmas day.
This encouraged me to continue on and write on subjects that I would never even think of. I ventured into other types of writing that even helped my style of writing.
“What was I so afraid of?” I thought. Fast track to a year later, my mindset now is “I should’ve started blogging years ago.”
For anyone that is thinking about starting a blog, all I can say is “GO FOR IT!” It’s a way to get yourself out there and share what you have to offer to others. You’ll be interested to find that there are others that share your same dreams, feelings, experiences, passion and humor.
Don’t be afraid. The only question that you should ask yourself is whether…”To Blog or Not To Blog.”